While being in the workplace I
have to be sharp and punctual. I have to communicate in a way that appears as
though I am competent in my work and error is not pleasing. Meeting the minimum
requirements is not satisfactory and I must remain sure and free from doubt in
regards to conversing with youth and their families. I have to be at my best
and fully conscious in a professional manner. While working with children/families
I must be understanding, patient, compassionate, and considerate in the way I
communicate.
Three Strategies
Three strategies I could use to
help my communication to be more effective with others would be:
- To stay empathic
and sensitive to the perception of others, while remaining mindful and
responsive to their way of thinking.
- Stay
open-minded to families in order to ensure that they feel visible and respected.
- To
uncover my own biases while being open that people have different perspectives.
To ask questions in order to better understand a family and/or situation.
Sha-Kevia,
ReplyDeleteI agree that it is important to find your own biases and that it is necessary to stay open-minded toward families. Thank you for sharing.
I believe that we have to be aware of ourselves before we may begin to teach others to become conscious of who they are and how they come across to others (intentionally/unintentionally). Sometimes, ourselves may be the hindrance that keeps new relationships from forming.
DeleteIt is so much easier for us to be ourselves when we are with family and friends. We can let ourselves relax and not worry about impressing anyone. The way we carry ourselves professionally can be very different. You have great strategies for being effective when you are communicating professionally. I am sure that the families and colleagues you work with are able to easily communicate with you and feel valued and understood in your relationships.
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I think it is vital to make certain that families feel adequate, supported, and empowered. Being more accepting and understanding to things that appear different is an important step toward building effective communication skills.
DeleteHome and family is considered my safe space! You are correct we can be "ourselves" when we are at home. I know that I am very particular with the individuals I allow in my home.
ReplyDeleteI agree, our home is our "safe haven." It is our place to unfold and to become comfortable and content. There is no greater place to be but in the comfort of our home. Being professional can be draining at times, because there may be instances when we want to scream or pull our hair out. It is always good to have a place to unwind.
DeleteNicely put I too feel more relaxed and unjudged when around my friends and even family. Also I agree with you when at work I too feel as though I have to be professional and use correct language.
ReplyDeleteI believe our friends and family help us to remain sane. If it was not for those people who accept us just as we are, the world would probably be (more)dysfunctional and chaotic.
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